Defining, Establishing & Enforcing Guidelines For Your Personal Space

At times, basic foundations, perimeters, even borders can be lacking, obscure or non-existent in one's life. It would be wonderful if everyone respected the personal space of others.  Unfortunately that is not the norm.  Each individual is responsible for defining what they deem appropriate and acceptable for themselves.  

When these guidelines are not established early on, one can feel confusion and anxiety about the right to choose, when to choose, even how to make optimum choices for themselves.   As well, they may be unable to perceive how limited or constricted their functioning space actually is.  

Boundaries provides the resonance for one to 'know' that they have the right to say NO!   It supports clarity in detailing and honoring one’s personal space and to literally and figuratively ‘stand tall’ in their convictions. 

To begin with it is important to look at your existing perimeters or lack of them.  Without defined boundaries one can believe they really don't have the right to their own opinions, preferences or choices.  This can appear in your life as others coming first or lack of personal time for your enjoyment and activities.  One may also experience a sense of being burdened or constantly deferring, relinquishing or minimizing your desires and preferences.

As you work with this elixir weak areas will become more visible and apparent.  Once acknowledged, better guidelines can be set forth as to what is acceptable, safe and secure for one's living and well being.   As there is a clearing away of the cobwebs to one's inner guidance, or 'Inner Being' more self confidence can be established in trusting what feels right, mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually.  This gem elixir also assists in the release of old beliefs or influences having diminished one's uniqueness, individuality; likes and preferences.  

In moving through this process you will find an underlying confidence begin to emerge along with excitement, hope and expression with an added desire to explore, expand and develop new potential and ways of living.   The frequencies of Boundaries also provide insight, strength and stamina in balancing ones daily activities with their goals.  As one's value and worth become stronger there will be a heightening of self-love, esteem and self expression.   

In the mix of this transformation, one may also recognize the need to dispel old anger, distrust and hurts coming out of what has been repressed.  The specific ingredients contained in this elixir provide support in this release.  (Should the anger be of a deeper nature,  Transforming Anger will assist in releasing what is stagnant and or seemingly locked in.) 

Boundaries reminds one that they have the right to be, that they belong and that their unique space is important and to be respected.

Note:  As with many of the Essence of Light elixirs, there may arise a gentle invitation to forgive, release, resolve and heal any remaining discord.  This frequently transpires in the dream state or via aha moments of insight.  Please remember to ask your angels, counselors, higher self or Source to walk with you during this transformation.  You are deeply loved and your counsel is exuberant when you embark upon the release/transformation of what is stressful to you psyche.

For those having experienced any type of abuse or deep trauma... your boundaries were violated and may need to be re-established.

Distilled water, essences (Antigorite, Berlinite, Bieberite, Bloedite, Hummerite, Liebigite, Meliphane, Messelite, Phantom Quartz Crystal, Transformation Quartz Crystal, Selenite, Tripliodite) alcohol as holding agent.  

Mist: Shake, spritz upon skin or over clothing 1-3x daily as desired.
Unless guided to apply in specific areas of body or chakras we suggest applying 1 spritz at back of neck downward & 1-2 down front of body.  Common usage of vibrational & gem elixirs is 1-3x daily. Because each person is unique in response to energy, always follow your inner guidance for usage.     

Archangel Raphael is the master healer of the angelic realm (Emerald Green Ray). He with your guardian angels & higher self, are available to assist in clarity, healing, growth and abundance. But you must ask. 

It is Very Important to drink adequate amounts of water. You are moving energy through your body & water is the conduit supporting this.  Four to six glasses per day is suggested.
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